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Thursday, July 30, 2015

Throwback Thursday: Spring 2013

Forward: I'm going to be "throwing back" and "flashing back" for a while, I guess. Bear with me. This post is Part Deux to this other Throwback Thursday post

The Davidson Spring back in 2013 was a little crazy-ish because we were not living in our home, though we still owned it. We were in the middle of prepping it to put back on the market. We had new countertops installed, had our floors professionally cleaned, put a special finish on our retaining wall (finally!!), had a drainage system installed in the backyard and then had it re-sodded, had most rooms repainted, and totally rearranged several rooms. I don't know if it was the fact that there were changes, or if those changes were particularly perfect, but I liked the new arrangement a lot.



We were blessed to be able to stay at a guest house where our good friends, the Rackleys, had stayed while on furlough from Africa. Some household repairs we did ourselves, so it was nice to be able to go back "home" somewhere else when we were done working for the day. No, not nice. Awesome! This may be the only picture of "us" living in the guest house. But I love it.


We certainly did our fair share of relaxing out at the "Rackley House." You know you are relaxing when you make time for jigsaw puzzles!


Sadly, my camera didn't come out very often. But, I swear, it did come out. I distinctly remember taking GOBS of pictures of Gabriel becoming a soccer star before our very eyes and also GOBS of Easter pictures among the blooming daffodils on Wye Mountain, but I have no idea what happened to those pictures. No. idea. I'm convinced we somehow lost a memory card in our multiple moves. And it breaks. my. heart. It's awful. SO VERY awful!! Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaccccckkkkk!!!!

SOME of our spring activities were preserved, however.

For instance, we were passionately involved with seeing some new raw milk legislation passed by both the House and the Senate. We actually visited the Capitol a couple of times. So exciting!!



We even got invited to sit in the VIP section of the Senate. No lie! A huge thank you to our friend, Senator David Sanders!!!! We owe you for the seats AND the support!


And the Arkansas State Senate begins its sessions with prayer. Love that!


Gabriel started playing soccer for the first time ever. And he was utterly amazing!! (But this is the only picture I could find. Boo!) Doesn't he just LOOK the part?? Noah played some, too, though I don't know where ANY pictures are!! (Double boo!!)


We had a sweet, impromptu visit with cousins at the park near our guest house. It afforded us an opportunity to exchange Christmas gifts because we didn't get to see each other for the holidays.


Noah finished his first year of Scouting during which he had to complete almost two years' worth of activities and requirements in order to finish the Webelos Cub Scout book and become a Boy Scout with the rest of the boys his age.

Here he is receiving his Arrow of Light.


This is the Crossover Ceremony, in which he went from being a Cub Scout to a Boy Scout.



We caught a Travs baseball game or two.


We had a fun play date at the park with another special homeschool family.



And occasionally we'd stop by our own home to check on things, dust, etc. And when we would, it was such a sweet treat to catch our neighbors at home. How we love soccer with these two boys!


Noah turned eleven during all of this, too. (Whoa.)




We enjoyed the peace and quiet and just being outdoors at the guest house. Noah can always be counted on to find some fascinating critter.


But by May, we had moved back "home home" because our house had sold. (Yay!) The kids were so glad to be back. For one thing, they had missed their toys!


You might've thought we'd be busy packing, but we were gun-shy and decided to wait until we closed and had the check in our hand before packing even the first box. So we simply enjoyed our spring. Noah, the creature-whisperer, rescued this bird after it stunned itself with a kamikaze dive into our kitchen window. It sat there on his gloved hand for the longest time before it came to its senses and flew off.


Atticus went back to school (Mother's Day Out) for the last couple of weeks of school after being home full time since December. He just wanted to be able to see his friends one last time.


I can't help it. Thumb-sucking is the cutest.


Last day of school. We love you, Mrs. T!


Then Gabriel had himself a birthday as well! He turned 6 during our last several days at home, so we squeezed in a special dinner at his favorite pizza place, Larry's.





Then we got to work. We had only five days to pack, by the way!! (No lie.)


These silly kids of mine had a blast rediscovering old baby toys they vaguely remembered playing with a long time ago.


And by the end of May we had to be completely moved out of the house. We put most of our stuff in Pods and rented a storage unit. My parents had been up to help us get the house emptied, so they took Saylor back with them for a visit, but the rest of us camped out on our bedroom floor during our last night at home. We didn't get much sleep. At what age does it become impossible to sleep on a floor with anything close to what could be called "comfort?" I don't know, but we obviously passed that age long ago.


Gabe poses in his first-ever bedroom.


It was Atticus's first-ever bedroom, too. These boys shared their babyhood here. Heart-wrenching!


When it was time to pull out, however, we had no place to go. Quite literally.


We ended up in a hotel for the first couple of nights, just so we could regroup. Then we went to stay with Poppy in Conway. For three whole months!! We just didn't know where we were headed next. Every few days we would make the trek back to Little Rock to run errands, see friends, do what we like to do, view properties, etc.

We visited the library.


Spent time by (and IN) Poppy's pool.


Enjoyed the outdoors and each other.


We even occasionally dressed like a redneck. (Ahem...)


We can go the other way, too, and be all highbrow and what not. Photographic proof: Noah with his beloved ceviche. Fancy schmancy! Okay. Ignore the fact that he was (quite happily) overdue for a haircut. Focus on the sophisticated food. ;)


So our summer was not too much different than it would have been otherwise, except that we were looking for a house. (fun, fun)

Friday, May 23, 2014

Melancholy Moment OR In Which I Linger Over a Bit of Poetry

I don't typically like to post about my kiddos ON their birthdays. Partly because I'm...uh...more than a little busy, usually. But also partly because I feel a plethora of emotions, and they consume me. Birthdays are kinda rough.

But it's worse lately. I've been feeling this whole jumble of emotions MOST days, not just on birthdays. Right now, I am really struggling with the hard things. The cancers. The tornadoes. The wrongness and atrocities and things I'd like to shield my children from ever knowing. The aging. The dwindling. The sickness. The sadness. The sin. The bittersweetness of life.

I guess I tend to focus a LOT on the "bitter" and not quite so much on the "sweet." Which stinks, because there's a whole lot of sweet!! I know. I used to count. And...my kiddos ARE sweet.

It's just that they keep on growing!! And I sort of wish they wouldn't. Sometimes, deep down, I think I actually HATE their birthdays. I don't want to. I want to enjoy the day and honor my children and be grateful for their little lives!! And I DO think and feel those things...

But.

I also feel deep, deep sorrow. This is hard and a bit humiliating for me to say "out loud," but it is the truth.

Today on my little Gabriel's birthday, we were having a yard sale--of all things! And while I was hanging out in my least favorite portion of our home, the garage (yech!), I came upon ANOTHER box we hadn't managed to unpack after we moved. And it was FULL of books. In fact, more than half of my poetry collection was in there, so I did what anybody who would like to avoid the realities of yard sale-ing would do. I got busy reading poems. Ahhhh.......

But then there was this one. By David Coy.


Wednesday Massacre 

Our pup has chewed on the faces
of the stuffed animals,
unravelled those fixed expressions
with sharp teeth,
then tore their bodies asunder.
"No, no, bad dog!" we scold.
Bear, Rabbit, Owl
are all dismembered.

Cotton litters the yard,
twisted bits of cloth.
We wonder what to tell the boy
whose body we remember holding
as he held on his lap
these soft toys.

But it was he
who baited the dog,
who left these sacrifices 
one at a time
in flagrant disregard of the past.


Cute, huh? But also cutting. At least to me--a mama raw with emotions on this particular day.

Plus it's true. It doesn't even have to be a Wednesday. And one certainly doesn't have to HAVE a puppy (and we don't) that goes around destroying precious stuff-memories. Kiddos on their life's journey just have a way of sacrificing their past all on their own. Heartlessly. Because they change and they grow, and they change and they grow, and they don't even remember those sweet-smelling, midnight-feeding, awe-inspiring cuddle moments in which your heart enveloped every. single. thing. about them and was utterly and completely filled to the brim.

They have never acknowledged the danger in which YOU have been ever since that filling. Danger of losing them. A little bit...at a heart-wrenching time.


My baby is 7. Agonizingly 7.


Sunday, June 17, 2012

Project 365: Weeks 21 through 22

Catching Up...Part One

WEEK 21
Sunday, May 20, 2012

As you may know, we took a year off from ballet this year. But Saylor's good friend had her recital today, so we were in attendance.




Monday, May 21, 2012

It's just a regular school day in our pajamas.



Tuesday, May 22, 2012

International mail to Africa...specifically, Gulu, Uganda. Thank you to the RCC folks for contributing their gifts and to the elders for footing the shipping bill. Love our church! And love our Rackleys!!



Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Happy Birthday to my sweet Gabriel!!

We spent the afternoon celebrating at Jump!Zone.







And then we took him out to his favorite restaurant, where he opened his gifts.


Homemade dessert at home topped it all off.


He especially loved getting all the birthday wishes by phone.


Thursday, May 24, 2012

Today these two are playing a favorite board game...so the rest of us can do school.


Afternoons mean outdoor playtime with the neighbors.




Friday, May 25, 2012

We took a little trip to the E.R. this evening. Wanna know why?? Well, it all started out so innocently...Gabriel and I were working on a Fun Fusion beaded craft. 




It was going just fine when Gabriel lost control of one of the little plastic beads. It sort of stuck to his finger, then flew upward. And, as his little face was within two inches of the table, the bead went straight up into his nostril just as he was breathing in. He panicked and ran off without telling me what had happened. He figured he could get it out himself.


Ahem... Of course, he just made matters much, much worse. And, therefore, we needed professional assistance (and a really nifty invention) to remove the crazy thing.  


Thank you to Arkansas Children's Hospital for being awesome. We enjoyed the garden there afterwards.



Saturday, May 26, 2012

Tonight Gabriel came running in after helping his daddy take out the trash. He was crying, "Special moon! Come see!" There was a thin layer of clouds in front of it, making it glow with a sort of hazy luminescence. I love that he noticed that. 




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WEEK 22
Sunday, May 27, 2012

We enjoyed an early Memorial Day celebration with friends this evening. Gabriel pretty much spent the whole time in this sandbox.



Monday, May 28, 2012
Happy Memorial Day






Tuesday, May 29, 2012

There's a whole lot of party prep going on...



Wednesday, May 30, 2012

When we find something that makes Atticus laugh, we just have to record it.



Thursday, May 31, 2012

The kiddos hijacked my phone this morning to do weather reports. (Unfortunately, some b's = d's.) Gracious.


Noah also sent this video as an email message to his daddy. (All of this was going on without my knowledge, mind you.)



Friday, June 1, 2012

This is what it's like when we're preparing for big trips and birthday parties. It just so happens we're doing BOTH this weekend. Notice the piles of clean laundry and the children eating pizza while watching TV. 



Saturday, June 2, 2012

Today is a big, big day. Gabriel's very favorite, most important friend is having her birthday party. Here she is with the special present Gabriel made for her. He didn't even know her birthday was coming up. He just wanted to make her something.


So her party was this morning...and then Gabriel's birthday party was this afternoon! (More to come.)





Two more weeks coming up soon...!
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